Watching as a loved one's addiction progresses is upsetting and frightening. A drug intervention in Bonham can help you convince your loved one to enter drug rehab, whether he or she is in denial that there's a problem or simply isn't interested in quitting drugs at this time.
A drug addiction intervention is a meeting between your addicted loved one and a group of concerned significant others, or CSOs. Usually, the loved one is invited to the meeting on a pretense and has no idea an intervention is about to take place.
During the meeting, each member of the CSO team addresses the loved one directly and explains how the addiction has affected their life. The meeting concludes with an offer to enter treatment right then and there.
A drug addiction intervention must be carefully planned in order for it to succeed. A poorly planned intervention can go wrong very quickly and may even make the situation worse.
The addiction specialists at our inpatient drug rehab in Bonham recommend getting help from a professional interventionist for your intervention. According to the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, a drug intervention for addiction that's organized and facilitated by a professional has a 90 percent success rate in getting a loved one into treatment.(1) The professional will help you plan the intervention, walking you through each step and helping you along the way. He or she will also facilitate the meeting to keep it concise, on track, and productive.
Step One: Educate Yourself
Unless you understand how addiction develops and progresses, how it affects thought and behavior patterns, and how it's successfully treated, you can't effectively help your loved one.
The first step of an intervention is education. Learn everything you can about addiction and the drug your loved one is addicted to. This way, you're armed with facts, and you can better convince your loved one that he or she needs help.
Step Two: Choose the Intervention Team
The intervention team should include up to six CSOs. These should be people whom your loved one likes, respects, and trusts and may include friends, family members, old teachers, clergy, or co-workers.
Avoid including anyone who might sabotage the intervention by getting angry or confrontational.
Step Three: Decide What You'll Say
Each member of the intervention team will speak directly to your loved one. Planning ahead of time what you're going to say is essential for keeping it positive and to the point. You'll want to avoid rambling, accusing, or judging. You'll start by expressing love and concern, and then explain why you're concerned.
Here, you'll cite specific examples of times when the addiction affected you. You'll end with expressions of hope for a better future, and you'll ask your loved one to enter drug treatment.
Step Four: Choose Consequences
Each CSO will choose consequences that they'll institute if the loved one refuses to get help for the addiction. The consequences should be relevant, and you must be willing to actually follow through if your loved one declines treatment.
Consequences may include no longer giving your loved one money or asking him or her to move out of the house.
Step Five: Plan Treatment
Before the intervention, you'll do your homework and choose a drug addiction treatment center for your loved one. You'll research potential programs and start the admissions process.
A professional interventionist, addiction expert, or other mental health professional can help you decide whether an inpatient or outpatient drug rehab program will work best for your loved one.
Step Six: Rehearse
It's a good idea to do a run-through of the intervention ahead of the actual meeting. This way, you'll know just how it will go, and you'll practice your "speech" and get some last-minute tips from your interventionist to help ensure the best possible outcome.
Step Seven: Hold the Intervention
The last step is to have the intervention. The leader will explain to your loved one what's happening, and each CSO will talk to the loved one directly. The meeting will end with the offer to enter treatment right then, and each CSO will outline the consequences of refusing to get help.
When done properly with adequate planning, a drug intervention in Bonham can help you convince your loved one to get help for an addiction. Even if it's not successful, it helps you understand addiction and makes it clear to your loved one that the drug abuse is a serious problem that will need to be addressed at some point.
If your loved one chooses drug treatment, the hard work is only beginning. Your support will be paramount to successful recovery, and experts recommend that while your loved one is in treatment, you seek counseling to work through your own issues regarding the addiction and learn how to best support your loved in recovery. Joining a support group for loved ones of an addicted individual will also go a long way toward helping you help your loved one in the best possible way.
If your loved one refuses treatment, don't give up hope. The drug addiction intervention surely resonated in some way, and if all of the CSOs follow through with the consequences they outlined, chances are, your loved one will eventually come to realize that treatment is the best option for restoring his or her life and repairing damaged relationships. Call us today at (877) 804-1531 to learn more about our programs for addiction treatment in Bonham and to answer any other questions that you may have about our services.